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13 YEAR OLD GIRL LOST HER RIGHTS TO THE HAGUE CONVENTION

by SUZANNE HEFFNER
How could a 13 year old lose her rights to the Hague Convention? Born an American citizen and residing in El Salvadore for 2 years with her Mother (the only source of Love and Nurturing ) and Father ( who still remains cold and distant ) and sister and brother who left El Salvadore with the Mother to seek Safety from the Fathers unhealthy lifestyle of domestic violence / sexual violence.
Subject: Gabby Buitrago, 13, lost her Rights in Hague Convention Trial
> To: buitrago8 [at] msn.com
> From: buitrago8 [at] msn.com
> Date: Sat, 10 May 2008 11:27:28 -0400
>
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> Message text follows:
>
> Lisa buitrago
> 9760 Heatherhearst Dr
> Chowchilla, CA 93610-8024
>
>
> May 10, 2008
>
> [recipient address was inserted here]
>
>
> Dear [recipient name was inserted here],
>
> An American woman living in El Salvador with her 3 American children fled
> El Salvador last year with the help and support of her American friends.
> She had resided there with her Salvadorean husband for a requirement of a
> 2 year stay for her husbands j1visa. In the course of the temporary visit
> she was stunned to learn that her husband had orchestrated a plan to run
> up there credit and default on there home while he was still residing
> without her in California. She was trapped in a foreign country and would
> either have to abandoned her children or flee with them and be pegged as
> an abductor. She had a small amount of money but her funds were depleted
> to a degree and a power of attorney that was signed in California to
> originally buy a home for the purpose of residing in El Salvador was
> beginning to be used to transfer all of the families combined assets that
> came from California into her husbands name only. The husband was cruel
> and cold to her seldom speaking with her and never promoting a emotionally
> healthy environment. She was at his mercey of when he would give her money
> for food and clothing for the children. He was an intelligent person who
> purpose was to use her American status and hard work during the course of
> their ten year marriage to eventually rob her financially. She had been
> conned into marriage with him for the purpose of his immigration status
> and he deprived her of receiving the full emotonal benefits of a loving
> marriage. She wanted children badly and was impregnated before the coulple
> was married. Gabriella Buitrago was born in California in August of 1994.
> The couple had 2 more children during there turmolterous relationship
> which was clearly serpentitious on the part of the husband in his abuse to
> her. She had a nervous breakdown from the effects of his cruelty towards
> her and was delicate due to some abuse that she had experienced growing up
> as a child. She was clearly fragile emotionally and her husband used that
> sensitive information to induce his corporal punishment on her. She was
> always ridiculed and a wound that she had never was given an opportunity
> to heal because her spouce never cease to let her forget it. Over the next
> several years this woman improved herself professionally and became a
> Christian. She would bring up her Children in a Christian environment and
> felt a duty and reponsibility to lead byexample. She became a successful
> realtor and involved herself in the community. When the US department of
> justice told her husband to return after 10 years of trying to waive it.
> They returned to the country of El Salvador. The American Children had
> been raised in a environment of Christianity and attended schools that
> were faith based. While in El Salvador, the children did o.k but their
> mother continued to struggle to maintain a sense of normalcey even though
> their father was self absorb and self centered. The problem came when the
> mother saw the neglect of he father when it came to the childrens medical
> needs. He had always deprived the family of emotional love but it became
> increasingly obvious that his self absorbtion would prove potentionally
> dangerous to the children. The father is a Narcissist and had projected
> his feelings onto the mother for years. The children were exhibiting
> inappropriate aggresive behaviors and the mother watched horrifically as
> her husband projected suicidal ideation on her daughter Gabriella
> Buitrago. A person who is used to being abused can survive but when the
> same effects come from watching the tearing down of ones self esteem to a
> child. Every Mother is Forced by Good Concience to do the right thing NO
> MATTER WHAT THE COST!!!!! Lisa Buitrago went to the U.S. Embassy and told
> them she and her children were in an abusive situation. What constitutes
> abuse. Well if you are not beaten the court does not consider being
> trapped in a foreign country with no access to money and being abondoned
> and made to fend for oneself ABUSE. The court does not consider using a
> power of attorney to rob you or your children of their rightful assets as
> abuse. A Hague trial was brought up against the mother for wrongfully
> removing her American children from El Salvador so that she could
> excercise her parrental rights with repect to medically treating her
> children were they have certain inalienable rights here in the United
> States. Lisa Buitrago hired a attorney but unfortunately he was not as
> adept in international law. She had no financial resources to fight for
> her American Children. She really sought political assyllum for herself
> and her American Children. Under the Aspects of A hague Convention, it is
> about jursidiction...Well how could lisa and her children be protected
> from losing their human rights if she didn't return to her home country.
> Wednesday May 7 was the trial. In Gabriella Buitrago's declaration she
> told the court that she would die if she was returned to that country. The
> children had seen 5 dead bodies and witnessed a murder. May 6, Gabriella
> suffered a severe panick attack which inabled the child to attend her
> Christian School. She was taken to the doctor and he prescribed
> anti-depressants. The children were stabalized from the harsh environment
> that they had exerienced as a result of living overseas. The Community of
> Chowchilla protected them and nutured them with Godly influence and love.
> The children were worshipping regularly at Cornerstone Church and their
> spiritual lives were flourishing. Gabby was excited to go to Wednesday
> night youth group and all three children were on the honor roll at
> Crossroads Christian. The children would be returning for the fall year as
> well. At the trial, a expert witness evaluated conversations between Gabby
> and her father and came to the conclusion that she had been coached and
> her thoughts were imposed upon her by her mother. The man never
> interviewed the children and never met them. He pursauded the judge to
> believe that Gabby was an immature 13 year old even though she went to a
> strong academic school all her life. Gabriella was not permitted to take
> the stand nor was she offered a advocate on her behalf. Truly ahe has been
> wronged by our system. The father of this child paid 5000 for an expert
> witness to hide her voice....to not let her be heard. He knew that Gabby
> had a lot of incriminating evidence against him and Now she is in his
> hands as of Thursday morning as the children seemed like they had been
> hi-jacked backed to the country of El Salvador using/with their U.S.
> passports. Gabby wants God to take her life Now, She says their is no food
> in this seemingly beautiful mansion....The court does not consider using a
> power of attorney to rob you or your children of their rightful assets as
> abuse. A Hague trial was brought up against the mother for wrongfully
> removing her American children from El Salvador so that she could
> excercise her parrental rights with repect to medically treating her
> children were they have certain inalienable rights here in the United
> States. Lisa Buitrago hired a attorney but unfortunately he was not as
> adept in international law. She had no financial resources to fight for
> her American Children. She really sought political assyllum for herself
> and her American Children. Under the Aspects of A hague Convention, it is
> about jursidiction...Well how could lisa and her children be protected
> from losing their human rights if she didn't return to her home country.
> Wednesday May 7 was the trial. In Gabriella Buitrago's declaration she
> told the court that she would die if she was returned to that country. The
> children had seen 5 dead bodies and witnessed a murder. May 6, Gabriella
> suffered a severe panick attack which inabled the child to attend her
> Christian School. The children were stabalized from the harsh environment
> that they had exerienced as a result of living overseas. The Community of
> Chowchilla protected them and nutured them with Godly influence and love.
> On May 7, Gabby lost her voice. Before the trial Gabby wrote a declaration
> to the effect that she would die if forced to return to the country of El
> salvador. The children had witnessed a murder and five dead bodies. El
> salvador is one of the highest crime countries in the world. Gabby's
> father paid an expert witness 5000 to silence Gabby's testimony. The
> expert psychologist persuaded the judge to not allow the child to take the
> stand. She had much to say over the course of living conditions and how
> she would die if made to return to a country she didn't want to be in.
> Gabby's testimony was strong and the court didn't allow her or the other
> children a voice. The DA's office had already prepared the trip before the
> trial ever started. Gabriella's testimony would had altered the outcome so
> she was silenced. A man who never interviewed her determined her
> intellectual and emotional capacity. Now gabriella and the other 2
> children are back in a seemingly beautiful home(by anybodies) standards
> but with lack of proper food, emotional and spiritual love. Medical care.
> They were returned to a country and a home were they do not feel safe nor
> secure. I need to get them back home. Gabby has asked GOD to take her
> life since her human rights have been taken away. They have been in El
> salvador because after the court order they seemingly hi-jacked using
> their American passports to return to El Salvador.
>
> Where is the justice for Gabriella Buitrago?
> She was never given a voice.
> Her constitutional rights were violated again in her home country as was
> in El salvador...Who protects the children who are smaller than our
> nations foreign policy?
>
> Here is one of many hearts wrenching emails since Thursday.
>
> sent from whosanangel [at] msn.com
> to buitrago8 [at] msn.com
> mom, i just feel like taking a knife an just stabbing myself
> right now.....i have no point of life....im being so rushed. i want god to
> take my life right now...i am trying to be strong...but want to fall on
> the floor. i dont want to eat....i want to die now...
>
> Sincerely,
>
>
> Lisa buitrago
> 559-903-9979
>
by Samantha Perez
Madera Assist DA make's decision for 13 teen year that ends in scearms for help from El Salvadore! This child was never given the chance to be heared by out justice system why you ask because the budget. These children were removed from their home and sent to the father. The Assist DA had bought plain tickets prior to court and pushed the judge who would not look the mother the eye as he made him judgement. How does the Assist DA feel now that she has put money before the lifes of children!!!!!!
How cruel to the ears of a Mother who lost in court when never given a chance to be heard. to be told the reason WHY?
WHAT BUDGET???
When does Due Process have a budget? District Attorney has a responsibility to follow the procedures to the law not the budget.
Does the Constitution have a budget?

Suzanne Heffner
by samantha perez (sperez [at] avalonhci.com)
Who will help this family
Gabby , we have not forgotten you or Paulina or Little Guillermo. Anyone out there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by Lisa Buitrago
As the indidvidual who was directly a part of this experience, I have to say that a major obstruction of justice coupled with incompetency on my lawyer brought about a verdict based on incomplete facts. The general population cant believe that our goverment (as great as it is) failed to protect and verify a declaration sign by the father's lawyer. The father who had defrauded his own family and the government, once again conned our officials into believing a declaration with bits of the truth which had been completely thwarted to support his theory, was a bona-fide document. This man signed under penalty or perjury but would have never been held accountable because he sat pretty and protected behind the veil of his corrupted country. Several interesting factors come to light in a situation were, This present Darkness was emulated in real life. The attorney for the father did a great job for his client. After all, prior to this petition. The mother sent several inquiries to various lawyers including this woman whom ended up representing the father. The problem is after the victory, This lawyers client sent the mother (his opponent ) An inquiry generated by Lisa Buitrago looking for legal advice and representation based on her situation. My question is did This lawyer, knowing the facts seek the father out or did the father accidently stumble upon her. The second question is that did the attorney share with her client an email that his wife had sent prior to the petition or after they had a bona-fide agreement. The tickets were purchased before the trial and to add inquiry to insult, Lisa Buitrago never had a winning chance because her lawyer dismissed Lisa Buitrago's desire to respond to and discredit the false declaration with bona-fide evidence. I thought there was a certain amount of ethics in law. Another bizarre fact is when the lawyers husband accompanied the children to the Country of El Salvador. He stayed the week at the couples estate in El salvador. Gabby Buitrago wants Mrs,. Koony to know that she was in the hospital during the month of Oct-Nov. Gabriella Buitrago's declaration about her medical fear came true. The only problem is that Gabby wished she had died when in the intensive care unit. A woman and her clients need to win has ended up almost killing a child. This system (one I would die for) failed to protect one of it's own. Gabby's spirit has been taken away but all will be revealed because darkness will be brought to the light. The mother has since filed for divorce in a country were all documents require apostillization. Your word on a piece of paper means nothing there. It has to be legitimized. Maybe NOW justice will befriend the truth. I hope the husband of this lawyer confided to her about what he saw. I think it strange that at weeks end, the man turned over the childrens U.S. Passports to Gabriella instead of the father. Maybe, just maybe he felt a tiny amount of shame. God Bless those that presecute you and speak falsely against you for vengeance is the Lords and His words are faithful. There is a law higher than this sytem we live in and it is not of this world. The Bible says," that if God is with you, who shall be against you. I place my faith and trust in HIM!!!!!!
by Anonymous
I am a good friend of Gaby's. I knew she had problems, but i never fully understood the true depth of them. I really can't beleive it, and im so sorry for Gaby. She doesn't rdeserve this... she is just an amazing person.
by Lisa Buitrago
Thank you for your courage to speak out and write on this topic. All three children are being deprived of their mother's love and dedication to them. What's worse is that their father (whom they love and need affection and attention) spends his evenings at his girlfriends house. My little Memito must feel so abandoned. How can a person subject a child to such coldness and cruelty. I pray, that the eyes of this man are open to what his actions are teaching but more importantly the karmic consequences he is sewing for himself. The Bible clearly states for children to honor their parents, but it goes on to say that parents must be Godly influences and train up a child according to GODS WORDS!
How will children previously strong in Biblical principles and application honor what is not from God! For their sake and his, My prayer is for the transformation to tke hold in him and rise to the nobility that should be his but can't maifest itself unless God calls him to HIM!!!!!!! What loving mother wouldn't want their children to honor their father. The problem is that we can't create his righteousness for him. He must do that for himself and with God. The Bible says, You will know them by their Fruit.....There are several signs of the fruit of the spirit and none of them are being exemplified in that household. May God interveen soon!!!!!!
by C.A.
After having read this I feel very OFFENDED. I’m a Salvadorian and I feel this email has really tried to put El Salvador down. I’m sorry for whatever happened to Gabriella Buitrago, but having met her personally, I can say she was very immature and, because she’s no from this country, lacked understanding for what happens here. Of course there is a high criminality rate in El Salvador, it is an undeniable fact, but this email simply exaggerates the situation. I have lost three friends here in El Salvador due to the crime problems we have, but I cannot generalize and say that this is a bad country. The number of good people exceeds the number of bad people. I have taken this email very personally because it seems as if Lisa has tried to make it seem as if El Salvador is the worse country and all people who live here are animals. Lisa: I’m so sorry you have made bad choices in your personal life. Yes, you chose the wrong husband and got served. Whatever your daughter has gone through is not El Salvador’s responsibility. It is your country’s responsibility, but mostly your own because you have failed to make smart decisions in your life. I wish you people could be more open minded and realize that in El Salvador there are many social, economic, and political problems, but I assure you THIS HAPPENS EVERYWHERE. There is no perfect country, and sadly Lisa and her children had to pay the price for her wrong decisions (marrying a bastard who apparently did “not care at all for his children”). I hope all of you can get closure on this issue, but please leave El Salvador out of this and start taking responsibility for your actions and decisions.
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